Kimberley C. Blaine is the host TheGoToMom.TV & author of the book Emotion Coaching Young Kids -She is a licensed Therapist and Mom Vlogger. Kimberly is interviewed in this video and talks about the big 4 Parenting Mistakes:

1) External Parenting

2) Discounting, minimizing and denying your child’s feelings and experiences

3) Using external motivations and rewards

4) Using negative consequences as punishment